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As we get older, it is only natural to feel lonely. Family members we used to live with in the past have likely moved out, some of your acquaintances might have left town and some of your friends might have passed away. 

However, it is important to understand that isolation and loneliness are bad for you and that you should not allow them to consume you. There are some steps you can take to turn things around and effectively address loneliness. Here is what you can do: 

• Start exploring things around you – to avoid social isolation, you can get out of your home and explore the area. Whether it be a local park or a shopping centre, there will always be something new and exciting to see and do that is not within a great distance. If you are comfortable with it, you can even take a trip to another city, or why not even another country? It is things like that will make you feel more connected to the world around you and not brood on your loneliness. Not to mention that any social experience that takes place in the meantime will better help you to avoid loneliness and depression. 

• Pay closer attention to your health – loneliness and isolation can take a toll on your health and wellbeing. Sometimes this will cause you to neglect your health, which leads to nothing good. Other than keeping active, you should try to keep healthy. This not only stimulates your physical wellbeing but also your mental health. In turn, this will help you keep positive and allow you to regain a sense of control that so many senior citizens feel like they have lost. You need energy, to face whatever challenges come your way, and staying healthy is how you can achieve this. 

• Turn to your creative side – as people get older, they can turn to their inner creative side. Whether it is writing, playing music or painting, creativity is something you possess within you and only need to unlock. Now, you don’t have to turn into the next great writer or painter, but doing something creative will help you adopt a more positive outlook on life. Not to mention that you can also engage with others, such as when you attend a writing class or visit a painting group. It will keep your mind engaged and your days busy. 

• Get a pet – adopting or getting a pet is also a thing you should consider. Pets are more than just mere companions – they become family. Pets provide unconditional love and greatly boost your happiness. Studies reveal that people with pets are happier and better protected against some of the riskiest diseases at old age. Pets provide their owners with a sense of meaning, even when no one else is around. You can also consider home care to get some help for your pet if you feel like it is becoming a burden. 

• Be more appreciative in your life – when we put more years behind us, we often think about our past mistakes, what we could have done and the things we didn’t do. Instead of allowing this to bring you down, which is likely, you should instead be more accepting of where you are in life and all of the things you have done. Rather than thinking about what you could have done, think about all of the things you have done instead. 

There is no doubt that all of these tips can help senior citizens with their loneliness and feeling of isolation. 

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